Doing the best we can

It's just over 10 weeks until my wedding day now and I'd like to say that I'm perfectly calm and everything is done.  I'd like to...but I'd be lying!!!  It seems a little odd to me that life hasn't stopped to allow me to spend hours meticulously planning our wedding...so there's still tons to do!  I also like to think that we have the power to change our lives and make them what we choose...but